He had stopped giving me time and never approaches me for going out or meeting ..also he’s too busy that he don’t pick up my calls and don’t give reply of my messages..

Hi I’m having similar issues with my boyfriend of 5 yrs now in the beginning we were always together and our sex life was hot, but lately it’s nothing like this He leaves for several hours while I stay home alone he’s very protective and uses the exuss he cares and worries about me that I shouldn’t go out without him. I have no family here and friends all disappeared a yr into our relationship, there’s very few words spoken between us and when it comes to our sex life lately I seem to have lost romance with him, he would spend hours watching adult films and then ask if I wanted to have fun, I always had to be dressed up heels makeup the works in order to meet his sexual needs which is very one sided by the wsy I do love him besides all those cons against him I have to say he’s never hit or cheated on me and for the most part always there for me, I’m so confused on what to do Someone help please

My boyfriend and I have been having lots of little fights because I get very worked up easily and I know I need to relax more and I kinda always attack him saying that he’s not affectionate and we don’t go out. But I don’t notice the nice things he does do for me and I feel bad and I think I pushed him away and he’s really bad at confrontation and talking about feelings and he says he doesn’t know if he loves me but he says he doesn’t know to everything but he’s gotten worse because I pushed him away. I’m very scared because he’s lovely and we’re still together and he still acts lovely like cooking dinner and we go out more and holds my hand and in the morning kisses me on the head when he gets up, but when I say I love you he doesn’t say it back and still says he doesn’t know. What should I do?

Sounds like you’re admitting to these things without realizing that those are the exact reasons why his love is dying for you

Girl, you need to get a grip and realize your love for HIM and start appreciating because it sounds like he really appreciates you. Maybe in a perfect world. But if y’all work there’s hardly time to do those things. But if you were dying in a bed right now what would you do/say to him? What will really matter at that moment? Think about it.

I comfort him and tell him I love him but he never says I love you back

Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it, Hes not really missing you if hes ignoring you. They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder in this case I think this guy likes you and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. I would give him some ultimatums or call it a day take control of the situation instead of wondering its not fair you have feelings too. qould uberhorny ekЕџi advice you to take control of the situation and no where you stand properly. Long distant relationships can be hard for anyone but it works both ways. cx

My bf and I have been together for about 11 months. I told him I loved him at around the 6 month mark. His response was “a” He then went to study abroad. We have stayed connected and talk and text each other everyday. He came home to visit me over spring break. Again I told him I loved him. He didn’t say anything. I got really sad. He asked me what was wrong and I said “you don’t love me.” He seemed really sad that I was upset by this so he just held my face in his hands kissed me and told he changed his mind and he thinks he loves me. He kissed me again and told me he loved me and i told him i loved him too. We kissed etc and all was well. Fast forward to today. My bf has been really depressed and struggling while back abroad. His mental health is the worst I’ve ever seen it. I asked him why. And he said he cares about me a lot. He said I’m his first gf and he’s not sure what he’s feeling. He’s not sure what love feels like. I don’t know why but that hurt me a lot. We have a pretty good relationship. Minimal fighting, sex regularly (when he’s in the country), I’ve met his family, we kiss all the time, he has talked about us moving in together and moving to a different state together. That is serious commitment to me. He also seems to genuinely care about me. Also I think it’s worth noting I am 26 and he’s 22. I guess my question is…. we are a year into our relationship almost and he still doesn’t love me. Is it with sticking around for or should I run before I get hurt? Responses from anyone is appreciated.